Choices and the Emotion of the True End Result

“Which brings us to the part that’s going to knock your socks off. Not long ago I was watching Tony Robbins’ TED talk. It’s mandatory viewing, I have to say. In his audience are some of the most highly accomplished people of our time, including Al Gore, former...

About Changing For the Good

There’s a barrow that gets pushed nowadays about how life is not about serving ourselves, but about working for the good of the society or environment we are a part of. The insidiousness of this assertion lies in the fact that it is morally unassailable, and...

The Truth about Relationships

 There once was a post circulating on FB about how to get the romance back in your relationship. Originally an article in the NY Times or some such mainstream organ, it proposed 3 prescriptions: 1) swinging 2) not watching television 3) living apart.   I’m...

When Passion Isnt A Virtue

A very sure sign that your perception is egoically distorted is that your view is accompanied by strong emotions. Thoughts and feelings are not a reflection of objective reality, they express our unconscious beliefs and assumptions. You might argue, and your enablers...